“If you wish to know what a person is…” #4

To know a [person], observe how he wins his object, rather than how he loses it; for when we fail, our pride supports us; when we succeed, it betrays us.

-Charles Caleb Colton


Our society claims to value good sportsmanship, especially graceful losing. Should more attention be given to graceful winning instead? Describe some examples of unseemly winning, either from your own experience or as a spectator of sports or other competitions. What did the winner’s behavior reveal about him or her? How might you persuade the person to change?

“If you wish to know what a person is…” #6

A wrongdoer is often a [person] who has left something undone, not always he that has done something.

-Marcus Aurelius


Another way of saying this is “There are sins of omisson and sins of commission.” Explain an example of the wrong done by someone who neglected or chose not to do something. Can “not doing” be as harmful as “doing”? Is it easier for “non-doers” to excuse themselves than “doers”? What kinds of personalities might choose leaving someting undone over doing something wrong?

Giving Your Word(s): On Writing and Talking #4

If you can’t write your idea on the back of my calling card, you don’t have a clear idea.

-David Belasco


State Mr. Belasco’s thought in another way, beginning with “A clear idea…” Have you ever discovered, through writing or talking that you hadn’t worked out an idea enough to express it clearly? Explain that experience (or make up one) using exactly 25 words.